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Posted by: | 2020/02/18

Seeking Advice

What must a husband do when his wife is just not interested in sex? I am married for seven years now and from the start, my marriage has been characterized by fighting for sex with a wife who just wants to be left alone. She forever complains about being tired even on days when she did not leave the house. I must cause a scene or some drama in order to get sex. My desire is for us to have as much sex as possible any day because we are in our 30s, not 60s. On the other hand, her desire is to have sex twice in a month, and the sex must be a ten minute session or less. She cannot take more than one round of sex, and is not interested in any different sex positions besides the one where she lies on her back and faces upwards. Even in this position, she remains still like a corpse during intercourse and does not move any part of her body. Is this even normal? When I try to strike a conversation about sex to hear what she prefers, she just says "anything". Please do not offer me the "Speak to her" advice, because I have done that a million times that we are both tired of the topic now. I am seriously starved of sex, so starved that I have resorted to masturbating while she sleeps next to me, peacefully snoring. By the way, this is a woman who gets devastated and throws a fit if I flirt with someone else. Even seeing a whatsapp chat with another woman on my phone, can send her to hospital. But her behaviour in the bedroom tells a different story. I am asking for help because when married men get involved in extra marital affairs, they are attacked and demonised by society. Here I am, trying hard to be the so-called loyal husband, but in vain. Two rounds of sex per month is too little for me. I can't take it anymore and I have started staring at women wherever I go, looking for a potential secret lover or maybe my next wife. I am about to cheat. Anonymous

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