Our expert says:
There is absolutely no such independent thing as bewitchment, but people who choose to believe in bewitchment can find it a handy explanation for what are actually simple problems of human behaviour, better explained and solved in other ways. In the example you describe, you are bewitching yourself by insisting on remaining involved with someone who very obviously does not want to be with you.
Firstly, stop communicating with her in any way at all : no calls, texts, or any other contact. That will only satisfy her if she is malicious and glad to have you confirm that you are squirming and suffering, and forces you to keep bothering about her. Delete every contact number and address you have for her.
How can you possibly hope to move on and forget her, if you keep contacting her ? Also, trying too hard to forget, if this involves thinking about her, is self-defeating.
Go out with other ladies and other friends : don't leap into a new relationship as a deep and passionate affair, simple have a pleasant time socializing with other people. If you find yourself starting to think about where she is, or what she's doing, or what she would think about something, swat the thought away like you would a fly that was buzzing round your head, and concentrate on anything else.
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