Our expert says:
There are several ways in which people may react after a traumatic marriage and divorce, and some of them are unwholesome and unhelpful. One is to be cautious and avoid leaping into a new relationship, and this is probably protective. Another, which often lead to further grief, is to rush into a grand passionate love for someone else, long before you have healed from the previous damage.
When a relationship begins between two people already married to others, one of the many problems is that you already know he is prepared to be unfaithful to his partner. What you describe strongly suggests that he is , for whatever reason, not ready to have he deep and profound love relationship you crave. Move away and attend to your own needed healing
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