Our expert says:
If you have family, they presumably know you and your wife and whatever has been going on : discuss this situation with them and get their advice.
Surely it can't be a total mystery as to why your wife has left you, or where she is ? She's been gone for 4 month, but accepted contact from you until 2 weeks ago ? What happened before she left : what did you argue about an disagree about ? What else happened after she left, leading to her refusing further contact with you ?
When you say : "elke keer se bly by iemand" this suggests she has left you often before, and you know that it is usually to stay with someone else. What sort of relationship do you guys usually have, if she keeps leaving you to stay with other people, and you keep on accepting her back, until she leaves again ?
I don't know for sure, but if she has gone away without explanation, and you can't find her or contact her, perhaps you can report her to the police as a missing person. Whether they will be able to help, or will bother to help, I don't know. If they find her, and she is fine, and maybe says she has good reasons for leaving you, they probably won't be able to do anything more.
You just mention the children : has she left them with you ? Or has she taken them with her ? In that case you would and legal advice as to your rights and the children's rights : you may be entitled to insist on proof that they are being well cared for in every way, as well as a right to see them and for them to have a right to see you.
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