Our expert says:
It would be interesting and useful to hear what other readers think about this sort of situation, which I'm sure some of them have experienced. It sounds to me as though your more basic problem lies in your expectations of a relationship, perhaps low self-esteem and self-confidence, and similar factors which make it less likely that your relationships with anyone would be likely to succeed and remain happy and fulfilling.
What is most like to help you, would be for you to see a counsellor to work on these issues : such as the way you feel he needs to "make (you) feel beautiful or special or loved", rather than gaining the ability to love and appreciate yourself as special and fine fro within your own confidence, rather than needing someone else to somehow prove it ; feeling terrified of rejection, feeling you have to "prove yourself" to others, and needing someone else to make you "feel like a princess" while ignoring the queen you probably are.
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