Our expert says:
Oh no, no jerkess ! Anyone who would enjoy marriage to the sort of guy you describe, would be truly daft. So of course you are unhappy and restless and want to find a safe way out.
Some thoughts : lying is usually a part of alcoholism, They can be convincing liars, because they start by lying to themselves. I'm worried when you mention continuing bleeding post-menopause : there are many possible causes, some rather serious, so please get this properly checked out by a gynae, asap
Wise to decide not to cheat for revenge : many problems with such a tactic, including the fact that the sort of guy you'd think of cheating on, to hurt him, probably wouldn't be hurt. Which you'd find even more hurtful.
And, from what you say, this is the second time he's spoiled a marriage.
Prepare well for a secure and satisfying independence. Start selecting your new National Anthem and flag.
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