Our expert says:
Hi. It is not unusual that sexual partners can have very different sex drives, and often that means that the partner with the higher drive has to compromise and try to also focus on other aspects of the relationship that they find meaningful. That said, sometimes a rapid decline in sexual interest can mean that sex is not particularly satisfying. Many people have fantasies and fetishes that they are not consciously aware of, or that they try to keep hidden. Accessing and incorporating these fetishes and fantasies into sex play can be vital for their sustained sexual interest and pleasure. Other times it can just be simple mechanics: you are not doing enough of what makes her want to drag you into bed every other day. Be it kissing or foreplay or oral. Find creative ways to get her to explore her sexual self with you. Keep the exploration as un-pressured as possible. And open yourself up to all the variations that sexually connecting with someone else can hold.
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