Our expert says:
I'll be very interested to see what other readers have to say about the issues you raise.
I wonder whether the central thing might be that you are misunderstanding the nature of friendship in significant ways. Facebook "friending" and "likes" have very little to do with genuine friendships and actual liking, in the real world. These profiteering social media have managed to sell too many people the idea that these virtual simulations of real human relationships can substitute for the real thing. They can't.
Similarly, artificial and juvenile models of "girlfriend" and BFF relationships have been invented and promoted.
You're married now. Great. Now concentrate on the primary relationship with your husband, and on making new ACTUAL friendships that arise naturally among real people you get to know, and which don't involve elctronic gadgets.
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