Our expert says:
You're definitely not crazy. Obviously by the age
of 26, this young man should be fully capable of living independently,
without running back to stay with Mommy when his other relationships or
arrangements fall through. Over-indulgent mommies are a common problem,
because, in the name of love, they may spoil a child and discourage
them from becoming independent.
At your age you have a
right to expect personal privacy ; maybe you're a bit over-sensitive
about your wife's privacy if she doesn't see it as a problem for her ;
but try to discuss this calmly with her. Try not to sound critical,
but maybe express concern that this set-up is not encouraging him to
grow up and become independent. Does he work ? ( if not, why not ?) and
does he at least contribute to your household with rent-sharing, and
haring also the chores ( and if not, why not ?) Any possibility of a little family or couples counselling to see what might be sorted out ?
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