Our expert says:
Hello. This fantasy is not as uncommon as you think. If you think you can share this fantasy with your wife, do so. She may be open to exploration. However, when you have this discussion with your wife, do so with the understanding that it may need to remain your fantasy. Your wife should never feel coerced into pleasing you sexually.
Opening up a relationship, if this is something she will even consider, can be like opening up a can of worms (see previous reader's question/scenario). It does not always turn out the way you would like it to, because in your fantasy you are completely in control.
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