Our expert says:
You don't know how much he has been flirting, etc., with women you don't know and haven't found out about. But the fact that he also does so with women with enough of a connection to you that he must know there's a good chance you'll find out, and doesn't care about that, shows no respect for you at all.
You don't have to "prove" anything about his misbehaviors : he has proved he can't be believed or trusted. Your error isn't being too suspicious but it's not acting on what you now to be facts. He is pestering and harassing other women, like a Hollywood mogul. And you are serving as an enabler.
Stop allowing him to mesmerize you into believing his nonsensical attempts to blame you for what he does wrong. This is a form of brain-washing : close that laundromat, and lock him out of it.
See a counsellor to help you find the confidence and sense to exclude him permanently from your life, and move on to meet an know some decent men : they do exist. What will happen to him if you do so ? It really doesn't matter. His life is HIS responsibility, not yours.
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