Our expert says:
The first advice I have for any couple thinking about inviting a third for play, besides talking it over for a couple of weeks and doing lots of research, is how you would handle it if you discovered that the new person gave your partner as much or more pleasure than you usually do. How would you feel if the third person was lavishing more attention on your partner than on you.
It would seem as if this was where things went wrong. You picked another man that was more interested in having sex with your wife than with you. Should you want to try another three some, then you will have to make sure that you pick a male that would be more interested to satisfy you. Guy-on-guy play can work out well if the men are willing and the woman is turned on by everybody doing everybody. It wont' work so well if your wife is thinking, "My idea of fun is not sitting here watching my husband with a man's penis in his mouth--'
Lastly, consider a threesome only if it is something both of you are interested in as opposed to when one partner does it just to please the other.
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