Our expert says:
Hmmm, indeed a bit strange. My first thought is : are you able to be sure he is not ALSO peeping at other people ? That would be criminal and could land him in very serious trouble. If it's only you he's peeping at, which is probably not illegal or criminal, it's still something sneaky he is doing, to please himself, without your consent. If you start with accusations and anger ( though of course you have the right to feel angry ) you're likely only to get back more anger, denial and probably lies. If you start with talking about how it makes you feel bad and disrespected, he can't say you don't feel the way you do feel, and the focus can then be more on how whatever he's doing, for whatever reason, is bothering you, and how he can stop this from happening.
Sometimes, a couple engages in fantasy role play within their sex lives, but though this is fine when both fully consent and enjoy it, it's not OK when it's done by one, without consent or mutual enjoyment.
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