Our expert says:
I understand that you have found this upsetting : though nobody deserves to remain in a relationship with someone who cheats and is emotionally abusive. You deserve counselling help ( check what facilities varsity provides for students ) to help you dis-invest emotionally in the relationship you used to have with that loser, and to assess your current state of mind. You may, for instance, have become depressed, affecting your mood, and abilities to study and to work. Explore the availability of CBT style psychological treatments, as these can be very useful, while antideprsant meds can interfere for a time with concentration.
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