Our expert says:
With the love you have for each other, and the obvious intelligence you share, this should work out well. Psychologists can have different ways of working, but should adapt to who you are, and what you feel comfortable with. Obviously, to start with, they'd want to hear from each of you, how you see the current problems. Remember this isn't a judge an a court case, so it's not about either of you accusing the other and proving how awful they are, but a chance for you each to explain your point of view, rather than to decide who is right and who is wrong.
The most useful way for each of you is to talk about aspects of how the other behaves and how that makes you feel. Sometimes what he does makes you feel bad, even if that's not his intention, and even if he doesn't notice ! It's more useful to say : When you do X, I feel Y" rather than, as is tempting"You ALWAYS do X".
Apart from dealing with the difficulties that arise between you, it sounds like it's be valuable to focus on the issue that troubles you both, and on enhancing your skills at handling stress. Most psychologists should be able to provide guidance as to anger management, too.
And give the psychologist feedback, too : we found it especially helpful when you did V"
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