Our expert says:
Maybe other readers have had experiences like this, and could helpfully comment. "Butterflies" rarely mean that there's something uniquely marvelous about the other person, but rather than there's something vulnerable about you. Sometimes it also means that the other person has recognized your vulnerability, and is exploiting it, using it to their advantage.
Apparently you chose not to tell him that you are married. Completely happily married people don't usually have emotionally charged chats with guys who give them butterfly's, nor fail to reveal early on, that they are married and in a happy relationship already.
So look at your marriage, and whether there are aspects of it that are not fully satisfying for you and your husband, and think about whether seeing a couples counsellor could maybe help to sort out any current issues, and help you re-discover the butterfly's within your marriage ?
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