Our expert says:
Firstly, I'm sorry that someone, I don't know who, has caused needless delays in putting your question to me, so I can answer it.
Gosh, so R 25 is the going rate for a relationship these days ? That's the opposite of inflation.
If his police officer "friend" insisted he pay her with food, before signing his documents, she is a shameful disgrace to the police force, as this is tantamount to demanding a bribe. He should have reported her to the commanding officer. That was no friend.
There is no excuse for such grubby behaviour, and if she keeps on doing this : why is she wasting the time on the job we pay her for, to spend the time begging for food ? Police pay could be higher, but it is well above the starvation level. The fact that she ASKS for it doesn't justify it at all.
So your anger was reasonable.
If he is now walking out on you, that's bad behaviour, too. When does he plan to pay you back for the money you have invested in his new business scheme ? If he's already paying bribes, the business could well fail, and deservedly.
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