Our expert says:
Maybe you are being insecure, but apparently with good reason. You say he has cheated on you previously, though with a much older woman. But even if his relationship with this child of 14 is entirely non-sexual, it is undignified and unwise. Maybe he's showing off to her, and trying to impress her.
If he refuses to show a picture of him and his wife ( you ) in his social media, or to indicate that he is married ( does he reveal his age ? ) and has any links to very young girls, this is indeed suspicious as regards his intentions.
I'm puzzled : why does it appear that HE proposed the girl come to stay with you, and you say nothing about your daughter's comments and wishes.
Above all, though, it does seem clear that there are very significant issues in the relationship between you and your husband, and you should be seeing a couples counsellor together, to see what can be mended.
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