Our expert says:
If the relationship is as you describe it, one wonders why you would want to continue with it. And it is totally unacceptable if anyone effectively blackmails you by threatening a suicide attempt if you break up with them. Blackmailers should never get what they demand. I'm sure others can advise you more on how to tactfully byt firmly break up with her --- and let her parents and family take responsibility for help[ing her handle this calmly, rather than by over-dramatising it into an unnecessary and avoidable crisis. IF she choses to do anything self-damaging, that will be unfortunate, but it would NOT be your fault --- she is supposed to be an adult and to take full responsibility for her own choices and actions. It is HER responsibility and never yours. And see a counsellor yourself, to deal with this tendency to accept excessive responsibility for other people, like her.
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