Our expert says:
At first reading, I thought you said 17, rather than 37. That he didn't despect your wishes about HIV testing is troubling and suspicious - he wanted to get you into bed, and presumably if he was confident he was HIV negative, he'd have been keen to be tested. I don't respect someone's reluctance to get tested when they plan to have sex with someone who they might be infecting with a very serious virus disease. That is not in the least a loving thing to do.
Not disclosing one's HIV positive status isn't being "shy" , its being devious, dishonest and irrespondible. This is NOT "a minor issue" - it can easily be a life and death issue.
Losing his temper and "getting harsh" with you indicates selfishness and probably a guilty conscience. Let him go. HIV and AIDS will not make you happy.
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