In the second of two articles,
psychiatrist Dr Michael Simpson gives advice and tips on coping with
examination stress. This article focuses on psychological coping
methods.
While you’re studying, think like an examiner. As you
read through the material, look out for things that would make a good question.
Also, look for connections between the different things you’re learning, both
within and between different subjects.
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Whether or not we like it, it's a fact that many of us
will be taking some form of test or assessment for much of our lives, so we may
as well get as good at the skill as we can. One of the best remedies is to be
well prepared. You can't do all that is needed at the last minute. In future we
will look at ways of planning your preparation so as to avoid that
last-minute rush.
However, right now it’s too late to start worrying about what
you didn't do months ago - you can't go back in a Time Machine and do your
preparation better, and sitting ruminating about what you "could have/should
have" and didn't do, simply breeds panic.
While you can't change the past, you can change the
present and the future, so concentrate on what you can do, rather than
bewailing what you can't.
How to prepare Prepare as well as you still can, planning for the exam,
and increasing your competence and confidence. Remember, this isn't a
microscopic examination of your soul, and the results will only reflect your
performance during each particular exam – the examiners aren’t assessing whether you're a
good or bad, or clever or stupid person. It's not about the real you, but about
your level of performance in a particular situation.
1. Think like an examiner. While you’re studying, think like an examiner. As you
read through the material, look out for things that would make a good question.
Also, look for connections between the different things you’re learning, both
within and between different subjects. We know that the more connections there
are to each piece of information you’re storing away, the easier it will be to
find and recall them when you need them.
2. Be positive Avoid negative thinking. Instead of
arguing with yourself, in your inner voice, about how awful everything is and
how you feel sure you'll fail (if you succeed in convincing yourself that
you must fail, you probably will), rather strike up a positive dialogue.
3. Encourage yourself Give yourself a good pep talk,
like a football coach before the game. You're an intelligent person (no-one gets
as far through the system as you already have, without being intelligent) and
certainly intelligent enough to pass the test. You have studied and worked hard,
you know a lot about each subject, and you should be able to remember enough to
answer each question adequately. Your Nobel Prize can come later: for
now, "adequately" is pretty darn good, and anything better than that is a
nice bonus.
4. Remember: thoughts influence reality To a remarkable extent, how you choose to think about
what is happening to you influences what will happen. If you decide to be
miserable, or a failure, you will be. If, on the other hand, you decide that you
can be successful, and cheerful, you will manage that, equally. Avoid trapping
yourself within a network of Absolute declarations you make to yourself.
5. Don't Musterbate My old colleague Albert Ellis wisely warned against two types of unhelpful thinking - Musterbating and Awfulizing. Musterbating happens when you make sweeping declarations: "I must
pass this test, and I must get an A in every subject" (not necessarily); "I
must be popular with everyone" (impossible and unnecessary); "I must be good at
everything and must never make mistakes" (Pal, no-one is good at everything -
and they'd be a dreadful bore if they were). Even saints make mistakes. Just
try to make new mistakes, rather than repeating the old ones.
6. Awfulizingis when you exaggerate the
consequences of what might happen: "It would be absolutely totally awful if I
failed, if I only got a C, if my friend doesn't call back tonight". Maybe it
would be disappointing, annoying, inconvenient, many things - but it probably
wouldn't manage to be as totally awful as you expect.
7. Stay healthy,
be moderate. There's another aspect of the sports analogy that's useful. Look after yourself and be kind to yourself. Only an idiot tries to run the Comrades
by just turning up and starting to run when the gun goes off. The successful
runners don't just prepare (like your studying), but they take care to eat
wisely, avoid unnecessary distractions and voluntary stresses (this is not a
useful time to choose your future career, or to decide about a life-long
commitment to your current girl- or boy-friend.)
8. Exercise moderately, eat and rest wisely. Treat
yourself as a nice person who deserves to be looked after well.
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