One of the great things about doing what I do is the opportunity to learn all the time. The questions that are asked in consultations, lessons and workshops are often challenging, forcing me to think, to come up with something new, a different angle on something, a new way of looking at something which gives a whole new understanding.
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Even just presenting the material on the various courses often allows for learning by saying things in different ways.
On the recent MENSFUN workshop I came to such learning.
We were talking about the idea of really hard penetrative sex. For a lot of men this is very hard to sustain and ‘do right’. I’ve long said that sex, sheer penetrative sex is an art on it’s own. Now, for a man to be able to sustain this as long as his partner needs, and that’s the key here, requires control of muscles and breathe.
What this does is that it allows an aspect of the true sexual nature of women out. It gives permissions for the beast goddess to scream out her passion and her desire, for her animalistic sexuality to be released and come out screaming with passion, demanding satisfaction. This is not the sexuality of gentleness and sensuality, as important and fulfilling as that is.
This is the power of female sexuality; this allows a woman the fullness of herself. Its satisfaction is not always to be found in orgasms, it's not about a goal, it’s about sensation and the release of that fire deep within.
This is a tough space for a lot of men because of what it requires from them.
Requirements Firstly, it needs complete attention and concentration, almost acknowledging the sacredness of the act.
Then it needs control of your sexual muscles, your breath, your stamina, and your willingness to go to a place that may make you uncomfortable. And then you need to be man enough to give your partner the space and safety to show that past of herself, to allow that fire to come into a raging, sweating, pumping, screaming inferno.
This takes you both on an amazing journey to the heart of yourself as a person as well as to the soul of your relationship.
It’s also a way for the totally physical, the lust energy, to be transformed into something spiritual, to move that energy of pleasure through the body to a place that’s hard to describe.
You need to be vulnerable to go there. There are no masks, no games. It’s a place of truth. I say this because you see yourself and your partner for something real, something you may never have shown or shared before.
Women
As difficult as this may be for men, so it is for women. To totally let go, to allow that beautiful slut goddess to awaken is life changing. Once that door is opened, you can never fully close it again. You may not want to visit it often, but when the fire calls…
This is not only about hard, pounding sex, but pertains to all sensual and sexual aspects of a relationship, and it’s not limited to straight relationships either.
Workshops In terms of this understanding and to help you achieve this I’m combining some workshops into something different and powerful.
I have also been learning more about G-area orgasms and female ejaculation, and I am now offering massage and lessons.
I'm also once more doing Taoist Sexual Energy Massage for healing and pleasure. There will also be a workshop on Expanded/Wave Orgasm as an experience. Please email/call 083 7435 129 for bookings of these amazing experiences.
Sex/relationship coaching is a new course for couples that examines sexual attitudes and beliefs, how they impact on our lives, a sexual philosophy, relationship skills, help with sexual problems and sexual techniques. This is a private course consisting of four to eight sessions of between one and three hours combining ideas, healing and techniques from many sources.
Dates for the amazing Tantric Waves experience have been confirmed: Thurs 28Sept – Sun 1 Oct. The cost, which includes border transfers, luxurious accommodation, three dolphin launches, delicious meals and an amazing workshop is R4585.00/person. This is limited to six couples. Please book ASAP to ensure your place. Bookings are handled by Halo Gaia, contact Kate: 011 614 4185, email: info@halogaia.com.
The exercises in the self-help programme for men, From Popping Your Cork to becoming a Sexual Super Hero have allowed me to be able to have sex for up to six hours at a time. Other guys have reported improvements from two minutes up to 20 after just three weeks. The entire programme is emailed or posted to you. The cost is R800.00.
I am offering a 10% percent discount for workshops booked before the end of June.
Jhb Dates
21 June: Taoist Sexual Energy Massage
One of the peak experiences on the sexual journey. A mixture of sexuality, sensuality, meditation, healing, intimacy and more.
Venue: Satyam Yoga School, Rosebank
Time: Wed: 7:45pm
Cost: R1000/couple
28 June: Sensual Massage Evening
I’d like to introduce a new idea, an evening for those who have done the massage workshops and would like to come and explore more, be in the space, share ideas etc. After 6 years of this I have not yet discovered the limits and this is a great opportunity to show you new things. We may also do some multiple massage, 3 or 4 or more people massaging one, a mind-blowing experience.
Venue: Satyam Yoga School, Rosebank
Time: 7:45 pm
Cost: R200/couple, R10
29 June: New Orgasm Techniques
This workshop will include Expanded or Wave Orgasm as well as G-area orgasms, how men can have orgasms without ejaculating and more. The genital techniques are demonstrated on latex models.
Venue: Satyam Yoga School, Rosebank
Time: 7:45 pm
Cost: R700/couple, R400/person
1 July: Beyond Massage into Ecstasy
A full day of sensual massage and touch that includes basic and advanced sensual massage, Bliss Body Massage, Tantric Energy Massage, genital Massage and more. This is a day that will stay with you for a long time to come.
Venue: to be confirmed
Time: 10:30 - +- 5:30
Cost: R1000/couple
5 July: Sexual Healing Massage
This is the 1st time I am teaching this extremely powerful technique in a workshop. It combines ancient Tantric Healing Massage with a modern touch. Sexual healing is not only about problems, but also about release, rejuvenation, intimacy etc. This is a practical workshop that can change your life. It can help with painful sex, sexual fears and blockages, healing and release of bad/negative/painful sexual experiences as well as release an enormous amount of sexual energy, increase sensation and more. You need a partner for this.
Venue: Satyam Yoga School, Rosebank
Time: 7:45 pm
Cost: R700/couple
6 July: Sexual Fire
The beginning of three sessions that will guide you in the art of sexual power as I wrote about in the article above.
Venue: Satyam Yoga School, Rosebank
Time: 7:45 pm
Cost: R1600/couple/R1000 person
Booking is essential for all workshops.
If you do more than one workshop there is a discount of 10%, more than two, 15% and 20% for more than three.
Please email or call me on 083 7435 129 with any questions you have.
WIN!
One lucky couple in Jhb and one in Cape Town stand a chance to win a free workshop. All you have to do to enter, is to email Jonti at jontisearll@mweb.co.za.
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