Cybershrink on the Olympics
There's no shortage of commentary on the sporting aspects of the Olympics. But I like to watch other aspects of the events, those that are much less easily scored. |
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Marius Roberts on love and cheating
"Yes, I have cheated on girlfriends," admits Marius Roberts, popular M-Net presenter. "And it's not something I feel great about. But I know now why I did it." |
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Threatened by your partner's fantasies?
Many questions about sexual normality have to do with sexual fantasies. So what role do they play in the expression of our sexuality? And should you be worried about your partner's fantasies? |
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Is sex addiction just sales talk?
Does sex addiction exist? Or is it a fabricated label which does more harm than good? Cybershrink raises interesting points. |
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Exploring sex toys
How do you introduce sex toys into your relationship? This article discusses shopping for sex aids and how to get your partner involved. |
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A guide to great kissing
Follow these top tips to be a great kisser. |
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Talking sex with teens
While few parents relish the idea of talking to their teenage children about sex, don't shy away from the subject, advises the American Medical Association.
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Antidepressants and your libido
The "new generation" of antidepressants have few side-effects compared to earlier medication, but can it cause problems when you least expect it to? |
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Your teenager and sex
It is nearly midnight and your 16-year-old hasn’t returned from her date with her boyfriend. You don’t want to think about it, but the thought does cross your mind.
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Feast on the hors d'oeuvre tonight
Blokes do tend to rush through foreplay, like a hungry diner wolfing down his starter. But what if there’s no main course? |
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Guys, bring the house down
The much-maligned Missionary Position can lead to powerful orgasms for women, as long as the right pressure is applied. Here's how to get it right. |
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The history of the vibrator
The vibrator was first invented to treat women said to be suffering from "hysteria". We take a look at the different shapes and sizes of vibrators through the ages. |
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Are you a candidate for breast ops?
Are you considering breast surgery? If so, read this first to see if it is a good idea or not. |
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What is cybersex?
If you occasionally visit a porn site, can you be classified as a cybersex addict? Health24 investigates. |
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Learn how to fantasise
Many of us tend too feel shy about having sexual fantasies, or even guilty. But the experts say that a vibrant fantasy life is an important element of healthy sexuality.
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What is cheating?
Health24's Cybershrink explores when and why a person would cheat on his/her lover. |
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The Olympics in the movies
There have been numerous films related to the Olympics, few of them good ones, and several Olympic athletes have made a transition to Hollywood, though none became really good actors. |
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Olympic trivia
In the last 108 years of Olympic history, quite a few fascinating things have happened. How many of the following facts did you know? |
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Why do people have affairs?
Health24's Cybershrink looks at why people decide to have affairs and what puts a relationship at risk. |
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How to share a lover
Monogamy not working for you? Maybe it is time to explore non-exclusive relationships. Here are a few helpful tips on how to go about it. |
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Addicted to sex?
If you are concerned about someone's appetite for sex, here is a list of 10 signs that could indicate the presence of sexual compulsion. |
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Psychological dangers of breast surgery
Is breast surgery the answer to emotional- or relationship problems? Health24 gives an overview of research findings. |
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Caring for your sex toys
Caring for your toys is easy if you know the basic cleaning tips. |
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Learn good lip service
It’s been called more destructive than any sword, and yes, the tongue can do some real damage. But here’s how to make your partner wax lyrical about yours.
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Hit the spot!
Missionary position? Nah, overdone. Try our selection of handy configurations of carnal knowledge. |
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Alcohol, drugs, sex = no mix
Adolescence is a time to explore the different aspects of a sexual relationship. Commonly, this is also a time when many experiment with drugs. Why is this dangerous? |
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Being a teenager and pregnant
A pregnant teenager can feel very isolated and vulnerable. She can be plagued by questions of what to do next, who to tell and where to get help. |
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Condoms and your teen boy
Abstinence, condoms, a male pill or a vasectomy. Right now, condoms are the only real option for sexually active teens.
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Alcohol and sexual performance
Does alcohol increase sexual performance? It makes people less inhibited, but it certainly does not increase their ability to perform. |
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Don't kiss your chances goodbye
Even in an era of quickies, one-night stands and threesomes involving Martians, there's something electric about that first kiss. Make the most of it. |
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How to drive him wild
Want to heighten your partner’s sexual pleasure? Here are some tips given by American sexologist Patti Britton.
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How to use a vibrator
Here are a few tips on how to use a vibrator to increase sexual pleasure. |
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All about breast enlargement
Breast enlargement surgery, also known as breast augmentation or augmentation mammoplasty, involves the insertion of an artificial implant behind the breast to increase its size. |
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Sex – how much is enough?
People are having sex on average 96 times a year – that’s about twice a week, according to the Durex Annual Global Sex Survey released at the end of 2000. |
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A last look at the Olympics
Cybershrink takes a last look back at the 2004 Olympic Games. And awards some wooden medals. |
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Cheating: Are you just being suspicious?
You think your partner might be having an affair. Should you investigate or are you being paranoid? Health24 investigates. |
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What is forgiveness?
What does it mean to forgive? And how can you learn to forgive a loved one who has hurt you? |
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Compulsive sex and its treatment
What are sexual obsessions and compulsions? And how can they be treated? An expert has the answer. |
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Breast reconstruction
Breast reconstruction may be delayed or immediate. The aim is to create a breast that is similar to the breast as it was before the operation or similar to the other breast. |
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Mistakes men make in bed
You've got her as far as your bedroom. What could possibly go wrong now? Many things - read these and find out why she never phoned or returned your calls. |
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Sex toys: Playing it safe
Sex toys offer a great opportunity for safer sex. But there are still steps you need to take to avoid infection. |
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Crystal meth: Are you up to speed?
It is easily accessible, relatively cheap and can even be made in your kitchen. But it is also highly addictive and could kill you. It’s called crystal meth or “tik”. |
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Condoms don't encourage teens
Making condoms available in high schools doesn't spur teens to become sexually active, new research shows. |
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Contraception for your teenage girl
Most parents don’t want to face the fact that their teenaged daughter might be sexually active. But fact is, many teens are.
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Ecstasy
Learn more about ecstasy - what it looks like, how it is used and how it affects you. |
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Handy tips for first-timers
Why do people use sex toys? And are there steps you should follow if you use one for the first time? |
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Positions women like
Here comes that generalisation again, and with it the knowledge that at least one reader will say, "But I'm not like that". Okay, let's say that many - not all - women enjoy.
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Rediscover the lost art of kissing
Remember your first kiss? There was a risky, risqué and special something about it. Too many people forget the charm of good old necking, even if it doesn’t lead anywhere. |
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When should breast reconstruction be done?
Traditionally, this operation was done six months after the cancer operation, but there are advantages and disadvantages to this. |
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You, your husband and porn
So why do many men like watching porn or looking at porno magazines? |
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Learning the art of forgiveness
If your partner has cheated on you, can you forgive him/her? Health24's Cybershrink offers a few pointers to help you on this journey. |
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After the affair: patching it up
There are few things in life that are more devastating than finding out that your spouse or lover has been having an affair. Can a relationship survive something like this? |
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'My life as a sex addict'
Joanne Brodie, has been treated for sex addiction, shares her story about addiction, sexual abuse and recovery. |
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Studies: Size doesn’t matter
New studies find both sexes' body insecurities may be misguided. |
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Tightening those pelvic muscles
These exercises are called Kegel exercises and they strengthen the pelvic muscles. These can also increase orgasm intensity, so find out how to do them. |
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Prepare for bedroom fireworks
Here are some easy tips for men and women that will light up not just the bedroom ceiling, but your whole neighbourhood too.
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Sexual practices: what's safe and what's not
Some sexual practices are indeed safe, and carry no risk of infecting the participants with the HI-virus. Others are not. How safe are your sexual practices? |
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Dagga
Your guide to dagga: abuse, effect, symptoms and signs, and treatment. |
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Contraception vital for teens
The first sexual experience is unplanned for every third boy and every fourth girl, raising questions about the suitability of modern birth-control methods. |
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Danger zones for teen health
You're going to live forever, right? Wrong. Even though health is often the last thing on your mind at this age, there are danger zones of which you need to take note.
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Heroin
This article discusses the heroin, its effects and the signs of heroin overdose. |
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Stimulating the G-spot
Stimulation of the G-spot can greatly increase pleasure. Here is how to find it and how you could stimulate it. |
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Even better than the real thing
It’s time we had some new clichés to do with foreplay. How about this one: You can spoil the main course by rushing through the starter. |
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Top tips for first-timers
What follows is not a set of rules. Rules about sex are impossible - what should matter is that what you do makes you feel good. But how do you go about it? |
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Breasts in the media
How have breasts been portrayed in literature, by Hollywood and in the movies? CyberShrink investigates. |
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A new take on sex addiction
Counsellor Joanne Brodie shares her views on sex addiction, why it happens, and what could be done about. |
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Can trust be rebuilt?
What happens when trust is broken? And is there a way of ever regaining it? Health24's Cybershrink shares his views. |
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Telltale signs of cheating
Where's your partner really? Are his excuses getting thin? Here's how to tell if he's cheating, says Health24's sexologist. |
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Polite way of talking about breasts
What do you call "breasts"? And how have these terms changed through the ages? |
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Sexual energy
Sex guru Jonti Searll writes about sexual energy. |
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Finding the elusive G-spot
The G-spot is a nodule of nerve-rich tissue that feels a bit like a soft walnut. You’ll know when you find it because your partner will draw your attention. |
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Stimulating the prostate
Stimulation of the prostate is extremely pleasurable for men. Here are tips on doing it right. |
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The changing face of heroin use in SA
You hear heroin and you think "loser, gutter, syringe, Europe". Think again. Heroin has become the drug of choice for many young South Africans.
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Dating abuse among teenagers
A study showed abuse in dating relationships is common among teenagers and is associated with other risky behaviours. |
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HIV, teens and young adults
Teenagers and young adults are being especially hard hit by the HIV/Aids pandemic: more than half of people newly infected with HIV are between 15 and 24 years old. |
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Teach old Trigger Happy some timing
Many men suffer from what’s politely termed premature ejaculation. If you’re able to come within moments while masturbating you may be training yourself to come too quickly. |
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10 ways to say no to drugs
Teachers and parents often harp on about how teens should say no to drugs. Here are some tips on real things you can say in a situation like that: |
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Behind the scenes with Mark Pilgrim
MNet's adult series SEXetc has polarised the country and highlights the double standards in our society, writes Mark Pilgrim, presenter of the show. |
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What sexual scientists say about porn
What is pornography? And what the effects of exposure to explicit material? We have a look at what sexual scientists have to say. |
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Breast self-examination
Starting at about age 20, you should examine your breasts every month. Follow these steps. |
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The history of sexual excess
Were Cleopatra and Catherine the Great sex addicts? Cybershrink looks at the politics of sexual excess. |
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Emotional infidelity - fact or fiction?
Your hackles rise when your spouse's friend phones for the fourth time this week and they spend hours on the phone. Do you need to get a grip or are you justified in feeling miffed? |
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Cybersex – is it cheating?
Does the romantic message in the Inbox wreak the same kind of havoc as the lipstick on the collar? |
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A brief history of the breast
For as long as we can remember, breasts have been objects of admiration. They have also played a role in fields as diverse as politics and mythology. Cybershrink gives an overview. |
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Dangers of over-the-counter drugs
When we think of drug abuse, we often overlook the potential danger of over-the-counter and prescription drugs. |
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How to eroticise safer sex
Are condoms just a hassle? And do feel they interfere with sensation? They don't have to - we show you how. |
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How to eroticise safer sex
Are condoms just a hassle? And do feel they interfere with sensation? They don't have to - we show you how. |
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Home-alone teen sex
The less after-school supervision teens have, the more likely they are to have sex, new research says. |
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Is your teen home in bed?
Do you know where your teenagers were last night? A new survey finds there's a chance they were at home - and having sex for the first time. |
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Living an essensual life
We are born sensual beings, but as we grow older, we become out of touch with what pleases us. Here is how to reclaim your sensuality. |
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Jonti Searll's Durban workshops
Jonti Searll offers the following workshops in Durban. |
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Jonti Searll's Cape Town workshops
Here is a list of Jonti Searll's workshops in Cape Town. |
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Lubricants: The basics
Lubrication plays an important role in sex. This article covers the basics of lubricants and why they are important. |
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Eaten up by jealousy?
When jealousy, especially of a partner, becomes excessive, it is inevitable that problems arise. What can you do about this? |
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Mom matters in teen sex
Parents who put off discussing sex with their kids may miss an opportunity to play an important role in when they will decide to have sex. |
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What happens when you drink alcohol?
Alcohol is a nervous system depressant and the effects can last for several hours. |
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Parents lower teens' STI risk
Parental supervision may help reduce the risk of some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in black teenage girls, says a study. |
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Shopping for lubricants
Here are a couple of important points to keep in mind when choosing a lubricant. |
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What is Tantra and Tantric sex?
Tantra is one of the modern sexual buzzwords that many people are talking about. Sensualist Jonti Searll explains what it is. |
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Could your child be taking drugs?
Is your teenager’s behaviour just the normal scourges of adolescence, or is there something more serious lurking in the woodwork? |
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Drugs: Where to go for help
Are you looking for help to give up smoking, drinking or drugs? Contact these support groups. |
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Teenagers and sex
What makes some teenagers decide to have sex? And what makes some decide against it? |
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Teenagers and sex - how to say no if you want to
To protect themselves against unwanted pregnancies and HIV, teens are often encouraged by older people to say no to sex. But how do you do this? |
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Teens and sex
The mere thought that your 14-year-old could be considering having sex is enough to give parents permanent insomnia. So what makes some teenagers decide to go ahead anyway? |
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Teens see oral sex as less risky
About 20 percent of ninth-graders admitted having had oral sex and almost one-third said they wanted to try it soon, according to a survey of students in California high schools.
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What Teens Should - or Should Not - Be Taught
Parents in the USA clash over what's appropriate when it comes to sex education. |
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Your teen and the older man
Your 16-year-old daughter is having a relationship with Keith, the 27-year-old cousin of her best friend. What should you do? |
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Questions to ask before saying yes to sex
When it comes to having sex, every person has to make his or her own decisions. There is no age, no place or no time that is right for everyone. |
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I think I'm ready for sex - now what?
What should you consider if you feel ready for sex? And what do you do if you would rather wait? |
