02. Getting divorced?
This is a very difficult time for all concerned, whether you are the one who initiated the divorce, or the one who was told the marriage was over.
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03. Leaving your abusive spouse
You've had enough of the abuse, the threats, the jealousy and the rigid 'Thou shalt nots'. It's time to go. Many women are seriously injured or even killed when trying to leave.
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04. If only he'd stop drinking
Are you lying awake at night worrying about someone else’s drinking or drugging? Do you find yourself constantly making excuses for this person you love?
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05. Marriage is good for you
Married people have been found to live longer, have better and more frequent sex, drink less, take fewer drugs, are happier overall and end up with more money in the bank, a new study finds.

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06. Is he interested in me?
All women have been there – is he just being friendly or does he want something more than friendship? How can you tell?
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07. Love or jealousy?
The jealous boyfriend seems to be a regular feature in all problem columns. And also often on the front pages of newspapers. When does jealousy become dangerous?
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08. Your way or no way?
Is it your way or no way? If so, take a good look at your marriage, because it might not last long.
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09. Why does he hit me?
Studies have found that there is a surge of domestic violence on public holidays. So why do men hit women? And why do women so often feel responsible for it?
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10. Midlife crisis blues
If your husband is going through a midlife crisis, it could become one of the most confusing and painful times of your life – and in his.
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11. Seduction mistakes
Things were going well - and then you said it. Damage done beyond redemption? Maybe, but maybe not. Here are things to guard against.
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12. Holiday romances
So you're on holiday and there's a hunk on the horizon. Why not? But just keep your eyes wide open.
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13. Relationship a non-starter?
Often, when a relationship ends in tears, you ask yourself why you were unable to spot the signs of the forthcoming disaster earlier. So what are these signs?
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14. Signs of a one-night stand
Last night was wonderful, but you've been down this road before and now you wonder whether the phone is going to ring. There are signs that you shouldn't hold your breath.
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15. 10 signs of relationship trouble
You watch TV on Saturdays and braai on Sundays and everything seems to be in order. But is it? Is it possible that you could become another divorce statistic?
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16. Glad you're not single?
No one in a long relationship has not sometimes wished they were single again. Often it is just a desire to lie on your bed, alone, while all around you is quiet.
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17. 12 post-divorce don’ts
Almost half of South African marriages end up in the divorce courts. So what are the things that you shouldn't do if you have recently been divorced?
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18. Are you on the rebound?
If you're left high and dry after a failed relationship - be careful – you are excellent rebound material!
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19. Bad reasons to leave your spouse
Most people, put together with just about anyone on this planet – Sandra Bullock and David Beckham included - will get irritable after a while. So yes, your fantasies of upping and leaving are normal.
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20. Difficult anniversaries
If your husband, wife or another family member has recently died, you will know with what trepidation you view the weekly, monthly or annual anniversary of their death.
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21. Can people change?
Everyone who has been in a relationship has at one point or another wondered in despair: Can people really change?
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22. 10 tips on break-up survival
Your partner's hit the road and frankly, you feel absolutely terrible. But all is not lost, even if it feels like it right now.
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23. Healthy relationship signs
What does a healthy relationship look like? Would we recognise one when we see one? Are those the laugh-a-minute ones or the endless drama ones we see on TV?
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24. 10 flirting tips
Do you know how to flirt? Do you know when someone is flirting with you? Learn to read and send out the signals that could change your life.
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25. You and your ex
It's all over and you're feeling terrible. But, for your own sake, what are the things you should never do to an ex?
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26. Emotional infidelity
Your hackles rise when your spouse's friend phones for the fourth time this week and they spend hours on the phone. Do you need to get a grip or are you justified in feeling miffed?
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27. Too young to get married?
The whirlwind romance, the ring, the wedding plans. Your head is spinning with excitement. But wait a minute – could you be too young to do this?
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28. Madly in love?
Summer's not the only hot thing that's around this time of year. There's also romance. And not many will escape the trap of romance – the euphoria of love eventually hits everyone.
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29. Partner health - should you nag?
The shirt you bought your partner for his birthday no longer fits. In fact, nothing does. And he's just opened another packet of chips. Is it your problem? How much should you nag?
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30. Are you a relationship addict?
Do you feel completely at sea when you are not in a relationship? Would you rather be in an unhappy relationship, than be single? You might very well be a relationship addict.
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31. Unhappily ever after?
And they didn't live happily ever after. Could this happen to you? Not a cheerful thought when you're walking down the aisle.
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32. 12 home truths about relationships
When it comes to relationships, there are certain things that you just cannot get away from. Like them or not.
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33. Brain link to true love
Scientists at University College London believe they’ve found the parts of the brain linked to true love.
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34. How to be a good lover
Most men will never be good-looking, rich and romantic. That's okay, a few short steps can turn you into the sort of lover that will make your partner overlook these shortcomings.
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35. Is your partner a manipulator?
You're doing the dirty work again. On your own. Truth is, your partner could be manipulating you. But how? And why do you keep on falling for it?
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36. Is your relationship abusive?
All couples have occasional disagreements about spending habits, in-laws, children, chores – the list can continue. But when is a relationship abusive?
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37. Sex and the older gal
Throw off your winter woollies and haul out your fishnets. Midlife is a great time to reclaim your sex life. Yes, I mean you, ma’am.
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