Last year you all spent Christmas with your family – now it's your in-laws' turn. And the mere thought of your burping brother-in-law is enough to make you have uncharitable thoughts with regards to the braai tongs. Not to speak of your mum-in-law's cooking.

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Don't let the prospect spoil your entire holiday, and don't fight with your spouse about it – remember, partners and friends we choose, family we just get; say something nice when you arrive, e.g. remarking on the new curtains – everyone likes to be complimented; if anyone says anything unpleasant to you, just let it go – people cannot antagonise you if you won't let yourself be antagonised; don't criticise the food or anything else – this is the quickest way to get tempers running high; and give gift vouchers or presents that everyone would like, such as wine for the adults or video games for the children.

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