01. Help or hindrance? The long and the short of it, is that people want you to listen to them, but not necessarily tell them what to do. Read02. Kids not leaving the nest? This article is for those families whose 30-year-old working son or daughter shows no signs of wanting to leave the nest. Read 03. Your family This article is not so much about dysfunctional families, as such, but more about things which family members should not do to each other. Read 04. Sibling rivalry Jealousy is there in your dreams, it's there every moment of the waking day – your job, your wardrobe, your house, your car, your spouse, your kids.
Read 05. Don't be the guest from hell This article is for all those people who have had the guest from hell – leave a copy of this in your drinks cabinet, where he/she is sure to find it. Read 06. House guest or house pest? If you live anywhere close to the coast, whether it be Margate, Cape Town or Hondeklipbaai, be sure that your family will suddenly remember you as the Christmas holidays approach. Read 07. Surviving your guests Are you still punch drunk after your last guests left? What can you do to make having guests less strenuous? Read 08. Caring for ageing parents Caring for ageing parents is one of life's more difficult challenges. If your parents are approaching an age where they're likely to become dependent on you, start planning now. Read 09. Some people just difficult? Everyone has a few difficult people in their lives. We can't always escape them. But there are some people who are enough to make a mule back away from an oatbin. Read 10. Festive season family feuds Christmas is coming up and you don't know if you have energy for your sister's spoilt brats and your mom's blind spots where your younger brother is concerned. Read 11. You and your child’s partner Your darling daughter has brought home the man she’s been talking about in glowing terms for the last three months – and you hated him. Read 12. How to say no to kids, nicely If your children whine or nag to convince you to give them what they want, here are some tips on how to bring the parental cone of silence down on them. Read 13. A drinking problem in the family? Alcoholism is a family disease. But what effect can it have on you to grow up in a household where one or more members have a drinking problem? Read |
14. Things never to say Even when you're really angry these are things mothers and children should never say to each other - they are guaranteed to haunt you for years. Read 15. Three generations under one roof Granny is all very well for ten days a year at Easter on the farm, but here under your roof? How will you survive? Read 16. Toxic childhoods A troubled home life can literally make children sick - even after they become adults.
Read 17. What fuels family murder? Family murders: we look at why people commit these deeply disturbing crimes, which have become something of a South African phenomenon. Read 18. Why do teens take drugs? More teens are trying drugs than ever before. Why is this?
Read 19. Your depressed parent and you Dealing with a depressed mother or father can be difficult. Here are tips to help you cope. Read 20. Are you a sucker? You're running around in circles - for everyone else, except yourself. And when those grim little tasks are handed out, they always seem to come your way. Could you be a sucker? Read 21. Making stepfamilies work Getting remarried? Are a couple of stepchildren and an ex-spouse part of the bargain? And how do the kids feel? Here's how to make it work. Read 22. Working mom? The pressure can kill When women exchanged their aprons for tailored suits, few things could have shattered the bliss of their new-found independence. But juggling work and parenting came at a cost. Read 23. When kids don't leave home Your sweet kid has morphed into a couch-hugging 20-year-old with no immediate plans to get a job or a life. He does no housework - but he does do TV.
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