Many a woman has lost her heart to a wonderful new man, only to find out later, to her horror, that he is indeed not the single, carefree bachelor he made himself out to be, but a husband and father of three.

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This is truly embarrassing, because often, if you look back, you can see the signs. But we don't see them, beacuse we don't want to see them. Who wants to believe that this wonderful man could be a cheat?

The sudden unavailability over weekends, the not taking you to his place, the not giving you his home number, the 'don't call-me, I'll call you' messages.

Chuck the creep, withdraw for a while and lick your wounds.

Somewhere out there is someone who will be able to treat you better and more honestly.

And whatever happens, don't believe the 'My wife-doesn't-understand-me' routine. Too many women have fallen for this. Don't join this queue. There very seldom is anything but heartbreak at the end of this line.

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