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14 December 2009

Make time for slow sex

Here’s how to inject some Tantric inspiration into even the most lacklustre love life.

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Fact: the fastest way to heat up your sex life is to slow things down. Seriously! Here’s how to inject some Tantric inspiration into even the most lacklustre love life.
By Jonti Searll

Perhaps it’s been spoilt. Sex, that is. We live in a time-saving, high-tech world in which everything has to be swift, electronic and immediate. Goals are there to be pursued andright now isn’t soon enough. Even in the bedroom.

It’s no wonder we desire – or demand – immediate gratification. We don’t know how to  wait for or delay the process of getting what we want. Sometimes, however, this means  we’re less likely to get it.

It’s far from surprising then that sex is also a casualty of our goal-oriented way of life. We want to “go for it” or maybe even “get it over with”.  an orgasm is, of course, the goal and preferably for both partners. But reaching that goal may not be very emotional. It may not be very intimate. And it may not be very fulfilling  beyond the physical release, if it happens. But at least you can tick it off as done.

Read the complete article in the Summer 2009/2010 issue of YOU Pulse. On shelves now.

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