Home > Sex > Sex tips Updated 21 June 2013 You can leave your hat on When last have you surprised your lover with a little striptease? 1 Shutterstock Check Are you a sex addict? » Ask Sexologist » Join Health24 on Facebook » Quiz Are you ready for sex? » SEE: What happens to your body during sex? How porn addiction can affect your sex life When last have you surprised your lover with a little striptease? If you've never done something like this before, the more important question to ask yourself is "what stops you?"Having sex doesn’t always have to be fast and furious. Instead of ripping off each others’ clothes in seconds, getting naked slowly can make sex so much hotter. In fact, the ultimate fantasy for many people (both men and women) is their lover stripping for them.Feeling self-conscious? Taking your clothes off in front of your partner can be a nerve-wracking experience, but it’s also a very liberating one. Your partner loves every part of your body, including its little flaws, and there’s no greater turn-on than seeing you confident and taking control. Choose your favourite sultry track and start moving slowly to the music. If you need some help, invent a sexy character in your mind and let it become you. Tease your partner by taking your clothes off one layer at a time. Enjoy the power and see the lust and desire build up in their eyes. Heels, lace, zips, scarves and buttons...let your imagination run wild.Once you tossed the last piece of clothing into your lover’s face, be bold and parade your naked glory. Caress and touch yourself until your lover can’t handle it anymore and succumbs to your seduction...Visit out Sex Centre for more tips. - (Striptease pic from Shutterstock) NEXT ON HEALTH24X Sex: the pleasure without the pain 2017-02-21 12:24 More: SexSex tips advertisement Read Health24’s Comments Policy Comment on this story 1 comment Comments have been closed for this article. Logout Comment 0 characters remaining Share on Facebook Loading comments... From our sponsors K Naomi takes a stand and shows women how to fight back WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal voucher! Constipation in women SA's old diesel vehicles continue to fuel allergies Live healthier Are you sure? » Aid your digestion What are digestive disorders? Are you really constipated? Many people think that if they do not have two or more bowel movements every single day of their lives they are constipated. This is patently not true, writes DietDoc. True of False? » SEE: How anaphylactic shock affects your body Stop believing these 10 allergy myths Do you still believe that hay fever is caused by hay? Or that food allergies are really common? No, and no again. We bust 10 myths about allergies.