Home > Sex > Sex tips Updated 21 June 2013 You can leave your hat on When last have you surprised your lover with a little striptease? 1 Shutterstock Check Are you a sex addict? » Ask Sexologist » Join Health24 on Facebook » Quiz Are you ready for sex? » SEE: What happens to your body during sex? How porn addiction can affect your sex life When last have you surprised your lover with a little striptease? If you've never done something like this before, the more important question to ask yourself is "what stops you?"Having sex doesn’t always have to be fast and furious. Instead of ripping off each others’ clothes in seconds, getting naked slowly can make sex so much hotter. In fact, the ultimate fantasy for many people (both men and women) is their lover stripping for them.Feeling self-conscious? Taking your clothes off in front of your partner can be a nerve-wracking experience, but it’s also a very liberating one. Your partner loves every part of your body, including its little flaws, and there’s no greater turn-on than seeing you confident and taking control. Choose your favourite sultry track and start moving slowly to the music. If you need some help, invent a sexy character in your mind and let it become you. Tease your partner by taking your clothes off one layer at a time. Enjoy the power and see the lust and desire build up in their eyes. Heels, lace, zips, scarves and buttons...let your imagination run wild.Once you tossed the last piece of clothing into your lover’s face, be bold and parade your naked glory. Caress and touch yourself until your lover can’t handle it anymore and succumbs to your seduction...Visit out Sex Centre for more tips. - (Striptease pic from Shutterstock) NEXT ON HEALTH24X SEE: What happens to your body during sex? 2016-08-26 15:27 More: SexSex tips advertisement Read Health24’s Comments Policy Comment on this story 1 comment Comments have been closed for this article. Logout Comment 0 characters remaining Share on Facebook Loading comments... From our sponsors 10 facts about diabetes and insulin you need to know How to care for your vaginal flora JHB - Free Caregiver Workshop with TENA experts - 15 February JHB - Free home visit and assessment with a TENA nurse advisor Live healthier Hello? » SEE: Interesting facts about hearing loss Earworms: Let it go Is it bad to sleep with earplugs all the time? SEE: Do women hear better than men? The reason why men often appear not to be listening could be because they actually can't hear you. Confident smile? » Acidic drinks can harm your kids' smiles The facts on bleaching your teeth Am I taking good care of my teeth? Why are my teeth stained? We know the rules – brush your teeth twice a day and floss to keep them healthy. But, have you ever wondered what causes those stains that sometimes appear?