This does sound like mumps or if not mumps an inflammation of the salivary gland called the Patrotid gland. The illness is known as parotitis.Antibiotics do not help for this problem as the cause is usually a virus. Becuse he has so much pain and cannot eat it would be best to ask your paediatrician to see him.
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