You have set out your concerns very well. It appears that your daughter is both attention seeking as well as being defiant in her behaviour and also very active with sibling rivalry. What also obviously concerns you is that she gets lots of love at home and still behaves like she does. She is showing some features of a psychological condition called oppositional defiance syndrome or ODD. I think it would be best to take your daughter to see a child psychologist.
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