This is a very good question and you have set out your daughter's problems very well.This is not normal behaviour for a 4 year old girl.Your daughter appears to be remarkably intelligent and is able to describe her emotions and feelings very well.It is possible that she has a form of OCD some features of which the teacher has noticed but does not manifest at home.It is essential that your daughter be seen by a child psychologist.
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