Your husband may feel that you have effectively given him permission to engage in his improper and borderline pedophile sexual impulses and behaviours. As I understand SA law ( which in this area is needlessly confusing and not obviously rational ), for instance, a child under 16 may not be able to give consent to sexual behaviour.
Why do you keep on "forgiving" him for what appear to be repeated attempts to establish sexual relations with particularly young women, who don't appear to be looking for it ? Doe he, by the way, usually buy underwear for other women ? Of just very young nanny's ?
Forgiving someone for bad behaviour they obviously do not repent and keep repeating, is foolish and encourages him to continue. There is no virtue or value in forgiving someone for truly bad behavior they repeat. Maybe you need to consult a lawyer about your options, but it sounds as though he is determined to have relationships with much younger women and not with you.
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