First and foremost, there is little you can do without your husband's willingness to carry out the necessary appointments.
I would suggest consulting a psychiatrist for a diagnosis; bearing in mind should ADHD be identified, the psychiatrist's means of treatment will be medication. Should you prefer a non-medicated route, seeking consultation from a psychologist would be the rout to go.
Your GP should be able to offer a refferral, alternatively you can contact www.adhasa.co.za for a list of specialists in your area.
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