Britain's National Health Service has a message for teens: Sex
can be fun.
Health officials are trying to change the tone of sex education
by urging teachers to emphasise that sexual relations can be
healthy and pleasurable instead of simply explaining the mechanics
of sex and warning about diseases.
The new pamphlet, called "Pleasure," has sparked some opposition
from those who believe it encourages promiscuity among teens in a
country that already has high rates of teenage pregnancy and
sexually transmitted diseases.
The National Health Service in the city of Sheffield produced
the booklet, which has a section called "an orgasm a day" that
encourages educators to tell teens about the positive physical and
emotional effects of sex and masturbation, which is described as an
easy way for people to explore their bodies and feel good.
Like more traditional sex education guides, it encourages demonstrations
about how to use condoms and other contraceptives.
Booklet to ‘encourage sexual awareness and responsibility’
Some professionals have hailed the new approach as a welcome
antidote to traditional sex education, which they say can be long
on biological facts but short on information about the complexity
of human relationships.
The booklet suggests ways in which teachers can encourage sexual
awareness and responsibility while teaching young people that sex
is something that is meant to be enjoyed.
Steve Slack, who helped produce the leaflet as Director of the
Centre for HIV and Sexual Health in Sheffield, said one goal is to
help young people learn to resist peer pressure and delay having
sex until they are emotionally ready.
"Far from promoting teenage sex, it is designed to encourage
young people to delay losing their virginity until they are sure
they will enjoy the experience," he said.
Slack said some of the ideas in the booklet came from the
Netherlands, which is well known in Europe for its liberal attitude
toward sexual behaviour.
Some experts slam booklet
But the pamphlet is condemned by some educators who believe it
will lead to more casual sex among teens.
"Some of it is good sense, but I think it's wrong is to suggest
that 16-year-olds should wantonly enter into having sexual
intercourse for pleasure," said Anthony Seldon, headmaster of
Wellington College, a school for teens.
"I think this is medically wrong and emotionally wrong and will increase teenage pregnancy and impact negatively on the formation of a long-term loving
He said teens should be taught about the value of a long-term
commitment, not simply about the pleasures of sexual intercourse.
Ruth Smith, news editor of Children and Young People Now magazine,
said one goal of the new booklet is to help young people become
more comfortable with their sexuality and to let them know they can
speak out if they are abused or forced into a situation they don't
"Research shows young people feel pressured to have sex before
they're ready," she said. "This booklet is intended to give them
the skills to discuss it. It's not a license to go out and have
sex, it's saying if you do, do it, wait until you're ready and
enjoy it. It makes them more confident and more able to say no."
She said the instruction guide will not be given to students but
is intended to suggest ways in which teachers can start a
conversation about sex.
"It's trying to find what works with young people," she said. – (Sapa, July 2009)
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