Our expert says:
Sounds like the poor guy has very low self-esteem and thinks badly of himself and his job - maybe feeling a bit intimidated by your independence and your achievements.
I agree that, apart from your re-assuring him, he does need and deserve some counselling to recognize all that is good about him, and to improve his competence. I wish such necessities were considered a routine part of the lobola !
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