Our expert says:
This is the sort of issue that your therapist should have dealt with, especially as he/she had the luxury of a couple of years within which to do it. I'm very surprised and disappointed that other readers haven't made helpful comments here. Proper counelling can help you to examine your options realistically, and there are ways in which voluntary work can enable you to work with and enjoy the company of children, instead of or as well as having your own
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