Our expert says:
You seem to be describing a more extreme than usual example of the Jekyll and Hyde nature of some abusers, who may even be genuinely kindly at times, between abusive episodes, but even their kindness is intended to control you, just as the abuse does. You need to decide whether the trade-off is acceptable to you. You can't stay with the generous guy qwithout also staying with the abuser in him. And by the way, if he is having sex with prostitutes, its probably just as well he does not have sex with you, as that would exposure you to all sorts of unpleasant infections. We all have a price, and you need to decide whether the unpleasant aspects of this relationship are, to you, worth the good paerts and profits. For most of us, I suspect the answer would be no.
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