Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Wife | 2013/02/04 Would You Would you have an abortion while married and already have two children, the reason for the abortion of this unplanned baby is that we having too much differences with hubby and doubtful of a positive future together.Im even suprised I got preggies, we have sex once a month - if I am lucky!! Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 4 Our users say: Posted by: ME | 2013/02/04 You dont have to kill an innocent soul because you having problemsin your marriage. Have you at least tried and talk about this with your hubby? Have you at least prayed about this?. I believe that chlid has the right to live despite of your differences with your husband. You knew or had doubts about your marriage from the beginning, you were supposed to prevent getting pregnant at least, now you want to kill an innicent child? what for?? Reply to ME Posted by: JR | 2013/02/04 You are married to this man, are you not able to work on your marriage? Not just for your own sakes or the sakes of the new baby, but for the other children as well? I had a misscarriage a while back, and not a day goes by that I don''t think about the baby I lost. It was alive, and it was inside me growing and developing in to a HUMAN BEING, A PERSON JUST LIKE YOU AND ME. HOW WOULD YOU HAVE LIKED IT IF YOUR MOTHER DECIDED SHE DID NOT WANT YOU BECAUSE LIFE WAS TOO DIFFICULT AND PLOPPED YOU INTO A BUCKET?I cannot fathom that women would murder their children. I know it''s your body, but you did not create that baby, God did. I could not live with myself knowing I willfully killed a living being. It is not for me to decide if a child lives or dies, only God is almighty enough to make that kind of decision. If you don''t want the child, there are many couples who do. I am sorry if I am harsh,but I have to speak my mind. Abortion is no better than rape. You are violating another human being, that does not have a voice, and that cannot stand up for itself. Reply to JR Posted by: Mom | 2013/02/04 No i would not. I do understand the situation between you and your hubby and chances is that he can even tell you the baby is not his because of the problems and the fact that you hardly bump and grind. i say this from experience, i even had to take my 3 days new born son for partenity tests. the fact that this baby was not planned doesnt mean that he is a mistake. there is a reason why God allowed him to be conceived.....it is all part of God''s plan. whether you and your hubby fix your marriage or not, has nothing to do with it. he should not be robbed of his life because of the mistakes his parents and believe me, you will never forgive yourself if you do it and then after that things gets well. unfortunately me and my hubby got divorced because after the baby partenity quarel things never got better. but my son is now 7 years old and he is so sweet and handsome (though he looks more like his father and has all hisfather''s features and character) and that makes me mad. *no offence* Reply to Mom Posted by: Hubby | 2013/02/04 At least you get it once a month. I get it maybe once in 3 months if i am lucky.... Reply to Hubby Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Regarding menses I'm not getting periods after stopping to take premoult n Frequent flu "Can i give empaped 250g suppository and nurofen children syrup at same time to bring down high fever" when is the right time to take fortomid?nd do u wait till u hv sex? whats the best cough mixture Systolic pressure high My systolic pressure is 178 and my D pressure is 82. CCF and raynolds disease How do i overcome my fear during pregnancy Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? Parental responsibilities My fiance and her 13 year old son Am I wrong Not sure what to do about this situation advertisement From our sponsors WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal voucher! Constipation in women SA's old diesel vehicles continue to fuel allergies Complete our allergy survey and stand a chance to win R 1000!