Our expert says:
Of course you feel confused and hurt. Maybe its just about relevant that he seems to have tried, while giving into temptation, to limit the actual physical extend of the affair ; but it was emotuionall unfaithful, and at an especially unfortunate time. What happened doesn't necessarily mean you were wrong when you thought you two felt happy together. I'm sure there is hope that you two could resolve this, and seeing ammarriage counsellor at this stage would enable you to explore this and work together to see IF it is possible to resolve it. And if you eventually concluded that is is not possible, or not desirable to do so, you could at least part then more peacefully and with a better understanding of the situation.
For your own sake, and that of the child, do use the option of marriage counselling to at least explore what might be possible, and to make a more calm and reasonable decision with maximum knowledge of the options
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