Our expert says:
ANd here was I, thinking that a stokvel was an economic club formed for financial reasons and benefits - if they go out drinking at nightclubs, they'll make losses, not profits.
Just talk to her calmly and quietly and sincerely, about why you feel worried that these wild women may not be good for her, and could lead her astray - emphasizing how much you admire her the way she already is.
An occasional wild night out usually doesn't do harm, but a regular pattern of this may well not be a great idea.
Do think of marriage / couples counselling for the pair of you. Forbidding her to join is likely to anoy her and encourage her to get sneaky about it.
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