Our expert says:
OK, so you in a way supported him while he was finishing his degree. But now he has a good job, and can afford to look after himself and to entertain you.
IF he can't drive a manual car, for a really good reason, why, actually, did you buy one ? Surely that was intended to be hurtful to him, or to prevent him from being able to use your car ? That really is a puzzle needing to be solved.
If you value this relationship, talk this over calmly with him, and suggest that you see a couples counsellor together, to understand better whatever is going on, and to sort things out as far as possible
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