Our expert says:
Were you actually "opressed" or otherwise mistreated in the relationship ? It may be so, and it sounds as though you felt coerced into it, if it was with the first man you had sex with who also gave you the HIV virus, which was iresponsible of him. But you endured the relationshiop for 9 long years before deciding to end it. I wonder what ultimately made you decide to do so, after all that time.
Did he specifically refuse to allow or enable you to work towards your dreams ? Or was it that, pressed into an early relationshi with him, you felt, in that situation, unable to move towards your dreams ?
Be cautious about getting too deeply committed to a new relationship this soon after ending the other one. Rebound relationships often have serious problems. Take your time, there's no need to rush. In time, it'll get much clearer whether he deserves to be trusted. It'll also give you time to tell him about being HIV positive, which would be responsible to do.
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