Our expert says:
Well, lets see what other people think. Personally, I don't believe it is compulsory for you to "be there for" a friend, if this involves intolerable pressures or inconveniences for you, or where it involves actually supporting the friend in ways that enable him or her to behave foolishly and self-damagingly. If she wants to jump off a cliff, you do not need to "be there for her" and help her to jump.
I understand that you feel uneasy about the possibility that there might be something going on between her and your bf, and you could be right or wrong about this. Can you discuss this calmly with him, and explore how he feels about this ?
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