Our expert says:
One wonders why he chooses to keep this relaonship so secret from family AND friends. Sometimes a family might have very conservative views about relationships, or might have cultural objections, but generally his friends should have similar views to his own. So one wonders.
Similarly, office romances can have a number of difficult complications. But a one-room relationship is odd, and suggests a degree of using rather than relating. Obviously, it was not you controlling him, but he, using these circumstances, controlling you. But it sounds as though you ended the relatonship socially and geographically rather than emotionally. Counselling may be wise to help you truly pu this behind you, to get over the disappointment and altered dreams. Changing a habit, maybe especialyl a bad habit, is dificult to do, but it gets easier
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