Our expert says:
Why not see a mariage counsellor, together ? And then, when you are resolving your marriage problems, work with the therapist / counsellor to involve your son, to explore why he is apparently more obviously upset by affection between you two than by the aggression he previously witnessed. ? Indeed, it is family therapy ( and FAMSA can help you find the right therapist ) more than ordinary marriage counselling, that you need.
Good comments all round, with Bob's Gf raising some especially important points.
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