Our expert says:
Withholding yourself from sex does not necessarily take a way the desire or your ability to do it – in fact it could actually lead to sexual frustration. Sexual gratification does not have to be with another person – if you choose to remain a virgin. You could explore masturbation as a natural healthy way of relieving sexual desire, and frustration and maintaining a healthy sexual identity and sexual performance. Fantasy often does not have any boundaries and it is possible to cross over gender boundaries in dreams and fantasies without any societal guilt. If you are uncertain about what to make of these dreams and thought it might be helpful to consult with a psychologist that deals with sexual identity and sexual concerns. You are furthermore welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where we could assist you to get in touch with a suitable psychologist as close as possible to you. You are also welcome to visit out website www.sexualhealth.co.za for interesting reading.
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