Some 4 years ago, hubby and i stand in the divorce court coz of his cheating, ok fine the crying and begging does not stop, what do I do, feel sorry and I do not proceed. Get back together and everything is rosie. Anyway for the past 5 months, his cell phone is his baby, even go no. 2 with it. I got suspicious. Ok fine, I do not catch him with the phone or what not, he WAS too clever for me. 5/6 times he got home late, Friday was the Christmas party and he got home 2:20 in the morning. Again I leave it. So we go to my brother’ s braai on Sat and we have a lovely time. My brother has another lady staying in the back rooms. She joins us and the fun is going on, I know her, hubby know her. It was late and I told my S.I.L I am taking a small nap coz I have been up since 5 that morning. While I was napping my husband decided to go to this lady. Lights off and everything. My S.I.L was in the room and when she came out, he was missing, she suspected he was in this lady’ s room and woke up my brother coz he was also sleeping. He got up and went to that room, caught them red handed, busy kissing, about to do the deed when my brother walked in on them. I am proceeding AGAIN with a divorce and husband feels I am unnecessary coz NOTHING happened, I go on about a “ KISS” … … … . If my brother never went there he was gonna “ DO IT” . I am distraught about it and I cannot believe my husband can stoop that low to even disrespect my brother’ s place. I am not the prettiest, but boy this woman is obese and plain down NOT NICE. I have class and I believe in looking my best at all times. Today I feel ugly coz I feel my husband pulled my skin off my face. This woman is seriously bad. How can a man do this to a woman time and again? Do they ever stop.