Our expert says:
Its obviously hard for anyone outside of this particular group of people, to guess what is going on. One wonders why the father has remained so anxious that his son marry you, and why the son seems to have become so reluctant to do so.
He may feel that his family, and especiall his faher, were putting too much pressure on him to marry you, and this may have been causing him to slow down and felt reluctant.
Discuss this calmly with him, explaining jhow you feel, and how you are concerned about how he may feel. One needs to try not to refuse to do something you would otherwise want to do, just because someone else is pushing you in the same direction. But as qwerty says, this is not the time, as he is now grieving the loss of his father. Help and support him at this time, and be available when he is ready for this other important discussion.
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