Our expert says:
They should not allow him to stay with them for free, but insist that he pay a realistic share of rent, electricity and all other household expenses, as well as helping with specific household chores. And if he doesn't like that, then he should be told to leave home and find a better deal somewhere else. It does him no good for his parents to indulge him in this way - when they are gone, nobody else will sponsor him.
What does he spend his salary on ?
And he has no business having children if he can't be bothered to set up his own home and care for them and their mother, properly. He sounds utterly selfish and irresponsible.
He needs tough love, surely. He may be 5 years older than you in calendar years, but he is much younger than you in maturity. Maybe he should know better, but he obviously does not.
He will absolutely NEVER EVER "snap out of his slefishnes" so long as all those around him allow him to keep on getting away with it.
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